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Tough Conversations!

Bhupinder Sandhu
4 min readMay 18, 2023

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Conversations that lead to beautiful destinations.

When it comes to difficult conversations, it is very common for people to avoid them. Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you knew you needed to have a difficult conversation, but you chose to procrastinate or altogether avoid it? This behavioral pattern is a widespread phenomenon and can happen in any area of life, be it personal or professional.

Difficult conversations can vary in topic, ranging from discussing sensitive matters with family members such as financial problems, or addressing important issues and providing feedback to an employee or co-worker. The reasons behind avoiding difficult conversations can vary as well. For some, it may be due to fear of confrontation, fear of offending the other person or damaging relationships, or not knowing the right approach to the discussion. Others may shy away from such conversations due to cultural or societal norms or upbringing, where such conversations are deemed to be inappropriate or seen as unnecessary.

However, avoiding difficult conversations is not an effective strategy, as ignoring the problem may escalate it, leading to more significant issues later. It is essential to communicate effectively and address any issues as soon as they arise. Avoiding the conversation not only creates anxiety in the person who needs to have it, but it…

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Bhupinder Sandhu
Bhupinder Sandhu

Written by Bhupinder Sandhu

Speaker|Author|Coach — Author of Bestseller — The Self-Esteem Formula & most read Mindfulness writer on Quora.

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